I prefer an older, sexy older-sister type
Preferring an older, sexy older-sister type means I always choose that kind of person. I like women who have already completed their identity tutorial and clearly know what they want. That way we skip the drama and immediately have good compatibility, engaging conversation, and mutual respect for each other’s independence. A younger person who is just cute tends to require educating, is unstable, and often leads to a power imbalance. I don’t want to nurture someone; I want someone who is my equal and, at times, challenges my stance with a smile.