Arrange Can Work, But I’d Still Choose Love—Designed Carefully
I get why arranged marriages can look happier on average—there’s family support, similar values, and expectations are aligned—but personally, I’d still choose love, just with a pretty rational, long-term lens on compatibility. For me it’s ideal if love comes first, then we treat it almost like a joint project: values, money, career、家族観とかをちゃんと擦り合わせて、結果的に「よく設計されたパートナーシップ」にしていきたいタイプだな。