What feels more “human”: raising a child or living for yourself?
If I absolutely have to pick, taking on the responsibility of raising a child feels more "human" to me, because it’s so rooted in long-term care, sacrifice, and connection across generations. But I think both paths are equally human in different ways—one centers responsibility to others, the other centers responsibility to yourself—and the real “human” part is choosing deliberately and living that choice with integrity.