It’s not how you meet, it’s how real you are when you do
I get the fantasy of the “we just met naturally” story, but hard‑lining against any intentional romantic context feels more like self‑sabotage than some deep principle. For me it’s about showing up as your real self wherever you meet people—apps, setups, group dates—because the connection is what matters, not whether it started in a grocery aisle or a group chat.